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Comment on 3 Ways To Improve Your Self Esteem and Take Back Your Power by Patricia

Patricia — Mon, 28 Nov 2011 16:35:51 +0000

Just found your site. Very inspiring info – I hope you continue to write more. I agree with Ada that we have all faced self-esteem challenges, but getting passed them is what matters. Well written article!

Comment on 3 Ways To Improve Your Self Esteem and Take Back Your Power by Ada

Ada — Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:18:05 +0000

This article is really well written and applies to all of us in some form. Even the greatest of us has faced self esteem challenges and it is a hard road to travel and especially hard to divert from. I will be sharing this article.

Comment on 3 Ways To Improve Your Self Esteem and Take Back Your Power by Vasuki

Vasuki — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 19:38:24 +0000

This is really helpful. and very well-written. Thanks!

Comment on M.A.R.R.I.A.G.E. – Has society sold us a lie? by Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 06:20:05 +0000

I am still single and I gotten tremendous pressures from people from family, friends, and others including strangers that I need to tie the knot soon. I found out at a young age that I was told a bunch of lies by people and all about marriage such as if you marry a doctor you will be happy or arrange marriage is more successful than love marriages. I remember as a girl, I heard women say to other women marry the tall, dark, handsome one etc. People are fed rubbish at an early age. It’s no wonder we have so many marriage problems worldwide. Marriage is a very important decision and I truly feel that people need to be prepared in order to handle that because I see so many people who did not develop into the person that they should have been, but rather went unprepared. It’s one of the reason why many people have failed marriages. I had seen and continue to see people making major mistakes like marrying a person for their looks, status, money, education, popularity, or something. I have also seen really good people turned down because of their looks, height, weight, not being a doctor or wealthy, or other things. I was very lucky that I had discovered the truth and not fall into the trap. I have many people who say to me to take your time and learn from their mistakes. Unfortunately, I know many people will make mistakes and wind up getting divorce. Celebrities have given a false message to society along with other people who just marry for the wrong reasons or don’t know what marriage is really about. It’s a worldwide problem not just in the west.

Comment on Low Self Esteem – Do You REALLY Know What It Looks Like? by Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 02 Nov 2011 05:59:46 +0000

The article hit bulls eye and I wish more men and women would read what you wrote. It seems that even younger children are learning from media and people that you need good looks in order to be valued in society. It’s a shame that many people can’t be their true nature or be themselves due to pressures. I truly believe eventually these people who value on looks will see the truth. Looks can last for a short time and those people who were just interested in dating people for their good looks will see the truth as well. I know many individuals who constantly upload pictures on their profiles just to boost their self esteem and several of these women are married. The married women I wonder if their spouse would have married them if they weren’t attractive? I won’t be surprised if marriages don’t last due to lack of physical attraction later on the years due to aging. These beautiful people have friends who are just interested in their beauty, not for who they really are and it’s just sad that in our world beauty is highly valued than personality, values, and other important things. I also noticed that insecure beautiful women make fun of others in order to make themselves feel better. All I hope the truth gets revealed and that beautiful women face reality than living some fantasy.

Comment on Putting Yourself FIRST – Is it a BAD Thing? by DENISE MILLER

DENISE MILLER — Fri, 24 Jun 2011 04:02:59 +0000

I REALLY LOVED UR BLOG DISCUSSION … IT IS SO TRUE YOU MUST LOVE YOURSELF IN RDER TO LOVE SOMEONE ELSE! I’M IN THAT PHAZE IN MY LIFE NOW WIT ALOT OF YEARS WASTED ON PUTTING OTHERS FIRST, SACRIFICE TO ONLY BE GOING THROUGH A SEPERATION/DIVORCE.. SMH… BUT THANK GOD WE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES.. AND THERE ARE SECOND CHANCES TO DO WUT U WERE CREATED TO TO DO AND BE. WE SOMETIMES LOSE OURSELVES TRYING TO PLEASE AND BE WUT OTHERS NEED AND WANT U TO BE… THANX AGAIN FOR SHARING AND GOD BLESS U = )

Comment on Putting Yourself FIRST – Is it a BAD Thing? by invincible~

invincible~ — Sat, 28 May 2011 14:09:12 +0000

first i read your reply to my breakup post, which was very helpful, thank you. now i read this, i find it helping even more! its been a while since i put my self first, but i remember how amazing it was when i did, and i dont man ego first i meant true self first. this is gonna be a long road i have to walk again..

thanks ikelove

Comment on M.A.R.R.I.A.G.E. – Has society sold us a lie? by Samantha Ofole-Prince

Samantha Ofole-Prince — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 22:42:21 +0000

Nicely said. I always enjoy reading articles that question labels placed within our existence.

Comment on Self Appointment to Greatness – How do you REALLY Do It? Part I by Kristen

Kristen — Wed, 24 Nov 2010 03:46:29 +0000

These are profoundly personal thoughts and I thank you for baring your soul!

Comment on Stifled? Can’t seem to express yourself freely? Here’s a reason why… by Best Clubs In London

Best Clubs In London — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 23:56:53 +0000

Great article…

…good luck to you in your journey.