I’ve Failed to Honour Myself

August 9th, 2016 1 comment

Honor

Recently, I was working on a video blog about self-esteem in terms of ways in which you can acquire it. I wrote a blog about it about five years ago, but I wanted to expand about it from what I’ve learned about it over the years in the video. Read more…

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My Embarrassing Journey from Being Terrified of and Angry at Women to Learning How to Love, Respect and “Sort of” Understand Them

March 1st, 2016 No comments

IkeFashionNight

It was the early 90s, the summer after my Freshman year in college, the month of August to be exact, and two friends of mine and I were walking around in the Village to talk to girls.

We were walking east towards Broadway, coming from Washington Square Park, and walking towards us were these two femme girls holding hands. Read more…

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Confidence vs. Self-Esteem – Is There a Difference?

September 30th, 2015 No comments

Victory

I believe that many people confuse having confidence and having self-esteem as one in the same thing. I used to be one of those people. You can have confidence without having any self esteem and you can have self-esteem without having any confidence in a particular area. Obviously though, it’s good to have BOTH. Read more…

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5 Brutally Honest Tips How to Get the Maximum Benefit from Going to Therapy

May 12th, 2015 1 comment

Rachel Howland Milwaukee

Among honouring yourself and consistently stepping out of your comfort zone, one of the cornerstones of developing a high self esteem is becoming aware of your self defeating thoughts, habits, patterns, behaviours and emotions (I explain more about this in a blog I wrote several years back titled, “3 Ways to Improve Your Self Esteem and Take Back Your Power“). Not being aware of them is like being in a boat unaware that there’s a hole in it and wondering why no matter how hard you row you have to struggle to stay afloat. Read more…

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Why Being at the End of Your Rope Can Actually Be a Good Thing

April 28th, 2015 No comments

Girl hang by a rope!

It was the last Saturday of November 2013, and I was lying in my bed on my back calling out to God for answers because it was a HORRIBLE year. Read more…

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