My Struggles with Connecting to the REAL Me

May 17th, 2016 No comments
Disconnected - by Timmy Brister

Disconnected – by Timmy Brister

Hey, it’s been awhile.

I’ll be honest and tell you that it’s more than me not having the motivation to write on here, it’s that I haven’t really had the desire. As I’ve been experiencing a lot of emotional release, shifts of perception, and self discovery, I’ve found that a lot of the motivations I’ve had that kept me on a routine have been shifting, which in turn has taken away my desire to do some of the things I was used to doing. Read more…

I Don’t Deserve To Be Successful

April 12th, 2016 No comments
Simple Frustration - by Al Davis

Simple Frustration – by Al Davis

As I child growing up, in our house it was hammered into the heads of me and my siblings by our father that we had to “work our ass off” in school and get good grades due to the fact that he was paying “thousands and thousands of dollars in school fees” for us and wasn’t going to be wasting his money on “useless kids.” lol Read more…

It’s Time for Me to Grow Up into a Man from a Man-Child

April 5th, 2016 No comments

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Yeah, so I took a couple of weeks off of writing this thing. After you share of your self the way I’ve been doing, on an energetic level you feel kind of open and “sore” (or at least that’s what it’s been like for me) and I didn’t have the “energy” to write anything, so I left this alone for a bit. Read more…

How Deep Can I Go? How Getting to My CORE Emotional Issues Is Helping Me Heal and Remove Success Obstacles

March 16th, 2016 No comments
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So finally, June of 2014, after years of thinking that no idiot therapist could know better than me about me, I walked into a therapist’s office after setting up an appointment, having already had resolved within that I couldn’t overcome myself by myself. Read more…

My Embarrassing Journey from Being Terrified of and Angry at Women to Learning How to Love, Respect and “Sort of” Understand Them

March 1st, 2016 No comments

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It was the early 90s, the summer after my Freshman year in college, the month of August to be exact, and two friends of mine and I were walking around in the Village to talk to girls.

We were walking east towards Broadway, coming from Washington Square Park, and walking towards us were these two femme girls holding hands. Read more…

Confession: The REAL Reason Why “Weak” People Irk Me So Much

February 16th, 2016 No comments
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If you aren’t friends with me on Facebook, this is your lucky day, because you get to hear about an incident I had on the subway a few weeks ago.

If you are friends with me on Facebook, and have already heard the story, guess what? This is your lucky day too, because you get to hear an encore. (Oh stop, you know my stories make your day)… Read more…

Why I’ve Been a Cold, Unfeeling, Emotionally Unavailable Douchebag for Most of My Life

February 9th, 2016 3 comments
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A few years ago, I was involved with this girl, and during one of our late night conversations, she mentioned to me, “You know what, though you’re the oldest child, you actually behave like you’re either the youngest or the ONLY child.” Read more…

Can People Please Shut Up about the Lack of Diversity in the Oscars?

February 8th, 2016 No comments

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So, everybody had gotten their panties up in a bunch because of the lack of diversity for the Oscar nominations for 2015. People are complaining about how White the Oscars are and doesn’t reflect the diversity of our country and doesn’t give recognition to the actors of colour or the movies that predominantly comprised people of colour. Read more…

6 Brutally Honest Steps to Stop Attracting Psychos, Losers and Douchebags As Boyfriends and Girlfriends

January 26th, 2016 No comments

Warm Winter Romance

So you’re a dude and you ended yet another, to put it mildly, “dysfunctional” relationship. But “Shut up,” you tell me, this one wasn’t so bad. She never called the police after the two of you had an argument and demanded that you be arrested because you hit her even though she was doing all of the hitting and throwing of lethal objects. Read more…

The Nice Guy vs. the Jerk – Are These the ONLY Two Options Women Have?

January 19th, 2016 No comments

Arm Wrestling

“Nice guys finish last.”

“She only likes the bad boys.”

“You’re too nice.”

“How come I only attract the a**holes?” Read more…