The Problem of Connecting to Others without Losing Ourselves

November 15th, 2017 No comments


I’m pleased to announce that I reached a new level in my therapy. This level definitely wasn’t possible for me last year because I hadn’t undergone the healing I needed to undergo in order for me to get to this place. What I also find interesting was that I had been recently contemplating stopping the therapy altogether, because I had felt that my therapy had stagnated, which made me think that I had gotten what I needed. Read more…


Got Problems?? Use Gratitude to Get a Breakthrough!

October 25th, 2017 No comments


Okay….I wrote this about a month ago, and things have changed since then, but it’s still very important, so here goes….

Ho hum…. Read more…


Overcome Stubborn Obstacles by Transferring Your Momentum!

October 17th, 2017 No comments


Many times in my life, there’d be a certain goal or endeavour with which either I couldn’t muster the motivation to accomplish or I’d run into a brick wall or setback over and over again, leading me to put it aside for another time. Read more…


Just Take a Step!!

October 11th, 2017 No comments

Footsteps on the beach

I’ll keep this one short and simple. Read more…


Be Realistically Unrealistic

October 6th, 2017 No comments


As i was taking the train home yesterday, meditating on what type of life I would like to be living a year from now in terms of something I ACTIVELY plan on accomplishing, not just something I passively day dream about without taking any action, it dawned on me that my vision should be “unrealistic.” Read more…


YES…You ARE Who You Associate With

September 29th, 2017 No comments


You know, I’ve always somewhat had an understanding of the principle that if you hang out with people who are either more successful than you or who are actively pursuing their dreams, it’ll increase your likelihood of becoming successful. Read more…


Colin Kaepernick is Right, But So is the NFL

September 27th, 2017 No comments

Where justice is denied, where poverty is enforced, where ignorance prevails, and where any one class is made to feel that society is an organized conspiracy to oppress, rob and degrade them, neither persons nor property will be safe. - Frederick Douglass

As you know that most issues are not black or white (no pun intended), but rather gray, I thought I’d throw my hat in the ring and share The Viable Alternative opinion to the venom and praise being thrown at both the NFL and Colin Kaepernick depending on which side is taken. Read more…


I Get It – Focus on Giving Value Not on Getting Money

September 25th, 2017 No comments

Business Meeting

As I continue to heal in the area of my finances, I’m having more revelations about money and success. Read more…


Stop Running and Face Yourself!

September 20th, 2017 No comments

Rain Run

Man, I heard a truly interesting story today. Read more…


Stop Looking for Others to Give You a Platform and Build One for Yourself!

September 18th, 2017 No comments


So last two weeks ago, I was at the funeral of a very talented and prolific African American fashion designer, Mr. Bill Witherspoon (pictured in the center, who was very well known in the NY Black Fashion circles. Read more…