Why Most “Self” Help is a Complete Farce and Waste of Your Time

June 26th, 2022 No comments

Yeah, I know, it’s been a long time, but if you will, follow me down this lane…

You’re a dude who’s insecure about your height because people have been poking fun at it for most of your life, and that has had a negative impact on your self esteem which in turn has had a negative impact on your dating life, career, and your social life. You feel like a victim and blame all your mishaps, failures and shortcomings on your height.

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Don’t Get Mad at Certain People, Pity Them Instead!

June 25th, 2019 1 comment

pity- party of one

I was talking on the phone last night with a very good college friend of mine and he told me a very interesting story. Read more…

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P.S. “The Beautiful People” Are Just as Insecure as Everyone Else

April 21st, 2019 No comments

naty chabanenko

Several years back, I was talking with a roommate about a woman we both knew who was a fine art/figure model that I had considered hiring to shoot with me in a photo shoot for a showcase I did some time before called, “The Ike Show.” Although she was very attractive, I wound up hiring someone else because I thought the other model was a better fit for my project. Read more…

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Self Validation – How the HELL Can We Effectively Validate Our Own Selves?

December 16th, 2018 No comments

To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

Hey guys, forgive me for being away for so long. I do YouTube videos in which, in the beginning, I give the address to this site, but always wind up apologizing for having not updated this for so long. Well anyway, finally I don’t have to do that any more. 🙂

Lots of growth has been going on in my life due to the continuous healing I’ve been undergoing via therapy which I’ve been now doing for 4 1/2 years and counting. I’ve been touching upon deeper places within me which has led to more solid connections with myself, and as a result, one of the concepts I’ve gained a deeper understanding about is self validation. Read more…

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